Thursday, May 20

is this bad.

For a couple days now Neal and I have been talking about some things that have happened with good friends of ours, in the last few days, and talking about having " our life".. And don't understand why people or friends feel so concerned why we never come out and hang out... Not that it is a bad thing to hang out with friends you have been friends with since high school.. But we found out some time ago.. that We are our own best friend.. and with him in Idaho, when he is home all we want to do is lay in bed and watch a movie.. But I don't understand why, our friends feel the need to presser the need to always have a pizza night, game night, movie night.. SOMETHING.. its not bad.. By all means.. We have just came to the point in our life.. that We want it to just be us... and not have friends feeling that they need to be concerned? come up with off the wall things about us, thinking we have a bad marriage because, we never want to hang out with some very short, sweet, fabulous time that we have with each other... WE LIKE TO BE HERMITS... But why do some of our friends make us feel that is bad??? Is it bad.. that i would love to just pack up and move.. far far far far far far away??

5 comments:

Noel Dangerfield said...

Girl, it's not bad at all! I totally know what you mean. Sometimes I wish Jeremy, Lucas, and I could move to some deserted island, haha and not worry about people, although it is nice to see friends every once in a while, you should not feel guilty about wanting to spend that little time you have with just Neal. I sure hope I am not the one being referenced in this post!! :( Haha, I'm pretty sure it's not me you are talking about. And for future reference, there is no pressure to hang out!! You know you can TOTALLY tell me if you want to spend your night with Neal. I am glad we got to see you guys on Friday and it was just convenient 'cause you lived right there. Anyways, love you!! Text me, let me know who you are talking about, haha.

Amanda said...

wel - just remember - you always spend all your time and energy with your best friend - so this is a good thing. Don't worry what others may think - it is hard having your husband away (and I should know). So be a hermet and spend all your time with your husband - because at the end of the day (or when he is home for the weekend) it his him who you lay down next to - not some friend - but your best friend!

Chels & Nash said...

That totally makes sense that you want to spend time with Neal when he is home on the weekends. i dont know how you do it with him being gone during the week i bet its hard. It sounds like to me that the so called friends your talking about dont sound like friends cuz you say some pretty harsh things about them. Hope all is well with you.

Our Beginning said...

I totally understand what you feel like. Wanting to stay at home and not go out with friends is totally fine!! I hardly ever want to do anything with friends because Im so comfortable just being with my husband. All you really need is your best friend :)

Anonymous said...

I feel the opposite! Patrick and I are always doing something with the family or our friends. Seems like we never spend the time together just us. I feel like that is more terrible. Its not that we don't want to, its that we have so much fun with other people....is this bad???